Friday, February 1, 2013

Thoughtful Comments Fuel Writers



NCTE Annual Convention in Chicago - Nov. 2011 - I met up with several Slicers for meals during the convention.
In 2008, Ruth Ayres and I began a writing challenge for teachers on our blog, Two Writing Teachers.  The Slice of Life Story Challenge’s primary purpose was to get teachers into the habit of writing about something ordinary every day for a month.  The secondary purpose of this writing challenge was to build community.  Every March, a group of teachers from five continents virtually comes together to share their writing by leaving a link to their slice of life writing on our blog.  In addition, people who leave a link to their writing are encouraged to read and comment on other people’s writing as well.  This simple act – reading and commenting – builds community.  It connects people from different ends of the earth by helping them get to know through written comments.

The Slice of Life Story Challenge also occurs on our blog every Tuesday throughout the year.  Many of the people who have participated in our month-long Challenge continue to share their writing every week.  This has been happening for five years, which means our writing community grows stronger with every passing week.  In addition, it has brought many of us closer since we’ve come to know one another through the slice of life pieces we share.

I’ve become acquainted with other bloggers thanks to the thoughtful comments they’ve left for me on my blog.  They’ve boosted my spirit when I’ve written about a sick day at home, responded thoughtfully when I’ve written about religious rituals, and have praised me when I’ve shared a personal triumph.  I’ve gotten book recommendations, advice, and well-wishes.  It is helpful to have people who consistently read my writing and encourage me as a person and as a writer.  Thoughtful comments take time to write and when I read them, they fuel me.  They keep me going and make me want to share more of myself in writing.
Getting to know others virtually through comments forms real-life connections.  I’ve met several of the people who take part in our challenge at professional development conferences.  Sometimes we plan to get together for a meal while other times we just run into one another in passing.  All of the interactions are special despite the fact that we’re often meeting in person for the first time.  Chatting for the first time is easy since we know each other through our personal writing and through the kind comments we have left one another.

We welcome non-educators to take part in our annual Slice of Life Story Challenge.  If you’re interested, then click here or here to learn more.  It would be great to have you as part of our writing community.

Finally, would you take a moment to share how other people’s comments have fueled you as a blogger/writer?




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Stacey Shubitz is a literacy specialist who consults with teachers about the teaching of writing in elementary schools.  You can find her online at Two Writing Teachers, Raising a Literate Human, and on Twitter.
 

18 comments:

  1. Carolina_Valdez_MillerFebruary 1, 2013 at 4:54 PM

    I think any time you respond, whether it's to reach out with comments or just to compliment someone or reply to something they said, it makes them feel validated, and like you said, builds a sense of community. This project of yours sounds pretty amazing. And wow, five years! That's quite a success!

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  2. I think it's so true Stacey that you can get to know people through comments on your own blog and theirs. I've definitely made some blogger friends through commenting back and forth. And it is so thoughtful when you stop by a blog and leave a comment.

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  3. I like to tell myself that readers' comments don't matter to me, but that's one of the little lies I tell myself. Silly, right? Why else would one blog and work on a book if reader feedback doesn't matter? I think commenting is like active listening when you are speaking face to face. It shows the other person (writer) that they are valued, respected, and cared for. Even if you disagree with a piece, like anything in life, if you look hard enough, you can find some goodness to celebrate! Thanks for the reminder! (And I love all your posts....even if I don't comment!)

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  4. I've been a teacher of reading and writing for a LONG time. During the day, I work with kids who find aspects of literacy challenging and during the evening and summer, I work with graduate students who are passionate about becoming effective teachers of reading and writing. I even went back and got a PhD in Literacy, Language and Learning (with a focus on kids and writing in an effort to really figure out how to help everyone become an effective reader and writer. Then, last March, I took a leap of faith and joined the TWT's SOL Challenge. I really did not plan for it to be an "action research" project; however, it confirmed without a shadow of a doubt that meaningful feedback is the single most important thing we can do for our students. While the mini lesson and models are needed, we ALL write more and write better with a little "feedback" and support from those we value. I've written about it before and just recently wrote a "memoirish" post for my grad students who are taking a writing course!
    http://drferreri.blogspot.com/2013/01/i-can-thank-amazons-one-click-ordering.html

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  5. http://drferreri.blogspot.com/2013/01/a-day-that-changed-my-perspective-on.html
    This is the correct link to thank Ruth and Stacey for a writing challenge that made a difference for me!

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  6. Thanks for this post! Comments motivate me as well and it means a lot when someone takes the time to respond. I wrote a blog post for the Nerdy Book Club earlier this week an each response made me smile. It means so much to know something I wrote touched someone else. I plan on participating in the Slice of Life this year. Thanks for doing that!!

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  7. My pleasure. Thanks for commenting on this post, Michelle.

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  8. Anita - One day, over coffee, I'll tell you more about my action research project. It dealt a lot with mentoring kids writing with teacher writing. (Shocker, right?)

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  9. I like your "active listening" analogy, Lisa.

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  10. Natalie - It's nice to know when we have an audience. (Sometimes stats and comments don't correlate.)

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  11. Carol - Thanks! I hope you'll check it out!

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  12. Stacey,
    I learn so much from you! It's been great getting to know you over the past year from slicing at Two Writing Teachers. You're right about comments meaning so much...and as always, thank you for the kind things you add when you read my slices! You're such an inspiration to so many people-especially me...

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  13. Love your line, "Getting to know others virtually through comments forms real-life connections. " It seems like such a contradiction, but it is so true. I've met some very sweet folks through blog comments (thank you, Two Writing Teachers!); it feels as if the world is a gentler place.

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  14. Maureen - I like to think of it as a gentler place thanks to the thoughtfulness of other people's words.

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  15. I love this, Stacey.


    The Slice community has been a great inspiration. I'm so glad I took the plunge last March and started writing with you. Your dedication to helping us form and maintain this community is so appreciated.

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  16. Thanks for taking the time to say this, Maria. I appreciate your enthusiasm and dedication to the SOLSC community.

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